Monday, May 16, 2011

The clock of love



9.15 amYou call me,
I am sleeping.
You become sad,
Obvious! you got right to.

9.45 am
I call back you,
you don't pick up,
'cause your phone is silent.
I become sad,
Obvious! I got right to.

You don't call me in the day,
I follow you.

11.15 pm
I call you,
I am sorry
but you say you are too.
You say it's your fault
but I say no it's mine.
You keep saying
how much you missed me.
I follow you.

1.45 am
You sleep saying
you love me.
I chant too
I love you too.

Love is like a flue
and clock of love continue.

Sunday, May 15, 2011

What is good and what is bad?

Man is always sick about what is good and what is bad?

I am in between bunch of people these days. My house is a marriage house actually. People come with different tastes, choices, demands or expectations. You have your own on the other side. I have my own world and they have their own. What is so common between us that you end up making a difference between good and bad?

It's fun to see people's reaction on something which is bad for their taste. There is no difference between my 2 year old nephew and we all. My nephew is very particular about Banana (BANAMA he says), if he does not get it, he will cry for hours and on the contrary, will smile in seconds if he gets a one. We are also like a 2 year old child when we see something other than our taste, we cry. Cry silently inside. Those who are bold will tell on the face and those who are shy will keep complaining in his inner world or go at home and throw his anger on some other person. We cry for sure though. Only thing we have forgotten is to forget. We just can not forget bad. We have created such an environment around us which never let us forget badly. On top of it, we feel defeated if we forget or forgive. I still remember those who forget or forgive easily are called "STRAIGHT FORWARD PERSONS" and these kind of people are used to be fun for others. They are always being asked to act smart but they fail to do so. How can they? Smartness is never their field to play. There is nothing right or wrong and good or bad for these kind of people, they just stick to one principle that is to be generous to all, even if others deceive them.

Good or bad and right or wrong is nothing but human concepts. We made it. It is an obvious perception by which groups gets formed. Group of common perception either good or bad. These two groups always fight in proving their opinion right knowing or not knowing it's just a perception. What I understood is this could be the only prospect a human have to pass his entire life. The book "The Secret" has relieved this secret only i.e. the law of likeliness. Our ancient hero like RAMA or MAHATMA GANDHI has followed the path they liked or found good and always objected the path they did not like or found bad. RAVANA was with bad because he considered it right or good. Who do not know the story of RAMAYANA? Lesson I got is you do what is good for you, do what you think is good. Never judge, if you judge don't be sad because what is good for you is nothing but an opposite perception of others.

I don't show anger or happiness when someone compliments good or bad. I feel normal and keep my famous silence.

Friday, May 13, 2011

Just 5 Km away

How far do we travel to see God?


I was going to a ritual place in Gorana - town of my father-in-law. Wears and tears here and there on the road. Bumps almost take your head out of the rickshaw and your heart out of your control. Someone said true it's not easy to reach to God.

God has made man. This is what all believe. Whenever and wherever I travel in India find reverse. At every 5 kilometer there is a new God, if not a goddess. Man has made God by stones, by tree leaves, by Sindoor, by Gulal or every other thing existing on earth. The shape of the God is also given similar to what a man look like. One who made God might leave his image in making it. Perhaps people in Saurashtra love tea, pan masala and Gods. Therefore, they make you meet all of them at every 5 kilometer.


I don't feel like worshiping seeing statue of God. He is just like me inside the statue. God in fantasies or unconsciousness is much more powerful and beautiful then in statue. Perhaps it gives me a relief that God in fantasies is flexible, like a wind, which can not be fasten to a statue. Why should we give a body in the name of statue to God? Who are we? I see him every day new, fresh who can not be touched, can not be designed, giant like Titanic and sometimes tiny like an ant. May the thoughts of God continue!

Thursday, May 12, 2011

Being conscious is fun

I was really wondering why mind has to judge every time it experience something? Judge about what is good and what is bad? Who is right and who is wrong? There lies a strong logical world, isn't it?

Consciousness is the root of this ever judging mind. What is consciousness then?

"Consciousness is a term that has been used to refer to a variety of aspects of the relationship between the mind and the world with which it interacts." http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Consciousness

The game is on interaction only. The more you interact the more you judge and the more you get confused too. I find being conscious is fun because you remain interacted through out. Who would not love to be interacted in this internet world? Does it mean we all are confused? Confusion, confusion! I think yes, what do you say?




Monday, May 2, 2011

10 tips while shopping with your girl

1. Park your vehicle fastest. You can kill her excitements.

2. Carry child with you. Else, she may ask you - "You don't want me to buy, he ne?" If you keep the child happy till she shop, you may be awarded with a good food later. Take that bonus.

3. Don't show a single feeling of hurriedness. She always feels its long time since shopping.

4. Show her shopping items even if you don't feel buying it. Give her choices. No matter you had none while selecting her. This will help you in counter arguing if she later changes her mind while returning home.

5. Put your phone on silent. If it ever rings, don't show it's a business call. If it's a business call, don't show it's urgent. If urgent, don't go in a corner and keep her alone. Rescue by calling it a collection call. She would be happy feeling you have more money to buy for her.

6. Never say - "It never goes with your color or it's not made for you." Say this - "Your color is brighter then the cloth or you are not worth of it." At any point of time, girls love sweet chocolates and talkers.

7. Never compare. You could be left hungry for days if you say someone look more beautiful on an outfit she already selected.

8. If she asks you to choose a one for you, make her feel like she is your boss's daughter. You will feel interested too.

9. Don't tell your budget in advance. She loves to make you spent on her. You are always rich in her eyes no matter your last 6 month's electricity bills are pending.

10. Pick up the heaviest begs while returning. If the end is happy, everything is happy.