Behind the closed doors

It all looks like Prince of Persia. A gate opens and a new challenge starts.

It has started since schooling. I was really afraid of closed doors and big name plates on them either of principal or of any other. Those fear is certainly fake and without any real weight simply developed and grown by mind. Like all, I have struggled and overcome that fear over a period of time. In profession, I encounter many closed doors with biggest name tags but hardly I am afraid of them. That fear has gone all most without my attention and all suddenly perhaps because I realized the person seating back those doors are nothing but as human or as erroneous like me. It would not be wrong to say that being mature is nothing but to realize that everybody makes mistakes and in line of that I overcome that fear of people and authorities.

I wonder who does actually survive than. Charles Darwin said it's the strongest who survives. Who is strongest than? If you ask me, our confidence of living and approaching has lot to do on our success and that's what makes us strong. We could be the most intelligent, literate or sound by concepts but if we have that fear of facing people, we would be doing what we hear and see in spite of what we learnt and read in books. We almost come under the umbrella of that dominating person and do just what they want us to do. We need to learn to say NO, need to show them a new way and different approaches. We could be thoroughly wrong at times but it's good to fail sometimes and learn by time. It's not only about guts to appear. Guts ends the moment we enter behind that closed doors and see in those monster looking eyes and then our smartness or intelligence has a role to play. Imagine ALIBABA. His guts ended once the door was opened and the rest was because of his smartness that he could handle 40 thieves. Again a great examples of how we should be use our different cards out of guts, smartness and intelligence.

Closed doors are so exciting and challenging at any stage of life no matter we win or loose. It makes us alive.