I had a very good dinner with few friends and sister.
It is good to meet new people. They urge new thoughts and give you new experience and suddenly you feel your mind takes a big turn of thoughts.
We encounter these questions many times -
"Why do people change?"
"Why don't people do what they say?"
"Why your best friends at time do not even remember you after a new life?"
It looks emotional at first go but when I stretch my mind a little more I realized we all want other people to play the way we want. We treat them like machines. We feel we have remote control to play them. Switch on and they should do what we order. That's what we actually mean when we say "We don't like this and we don't like that." We should not forget that humans are alive. They are made to change. They can think. Who does know right or wrong but their thoughts make them change. Why should we go so far? Take our own example. We were kids, then boys and now man. We will be old man. We will die. Isn't it change? Isn't it natural?
In fact, we don't like changes. It is always difficult for human being to have confidence in change. This change is not only how people changes but even change in general. However, more wondering here is that always not obvious or normal for us to see people change. We are not used to digest change not even change in human behavior. Change always brings pain. Pain to adjust your routine. Pain to change yourself too where it's really normal to change. Life would be too mechanized and so boring if it's not changing. If there is no new morning and no new night, think about it?
We must accept people changing. Have trust!
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